The Love Story
Marmol Parica Marmol and Jessa Tanada Clavero officially became a couple on April 7, 2004. That’s so long time ago, right? And here we are on the verge of pledging before God and men to spend an even longer time with each other. By all symptoms and indications, this must be LOVE.
For all who are interested in how this came to be, here in brief prose is THE STORY OF THEM:
From the Groom:
It’s been 10 years and 19 days on April 26, 2014 since our relationship was started more than 1 decade na no?
I know all of you will ask if if how it was started. Sige na nga ito na revelation of my love life hehe. It was started in an unexpected event in my life, at first was nothing; it’s just like an ordinary scene in my life.
Until Ms. Jocelyn Acayen came into the scene and she had a challenge on me. Jocelyn and I had an agreement that in specific date before the Fiesta of Patron San Jose of Sitio Banasi Pawili that this beautiful lady and I should be together (BF and GF in short). I don’t even remember what the price is if I won the agreement, she just dare me.
So, in order to win, I started my moves. I find myself very corny, I don’t know how but just to please this girl I will do everything just to win our agreement. I even wrote to many letters translated in different foreign languages. Oops dipa uso yung cellphone noon and I can’t afford to buy one.
To make the story short on April 7, 2004 as I have said earlier in an unexpected event in my life she became my girlfriend. As I have remember this line “ so ibig sabiyun kita na” and she replied “kailangan pa bang ememorized yan”.
That was one of the most special day in my life. The woman that I wasn’t expecting to love and to be loved in return. It was a mixed feelings that day I was AFRAID because we are still studying and I am thinking that this might be the reason on why we can’t finished our study, EXCITED because I have a girlfriend. I’m HAPPY not just I have a girlfriend but I won our agreement, INSPIRED , and of course I have a lot of FEAR because there are many consequences at stake if I enter this relationship (ALAM NYU NA YUN KUNG HINDI IPAGTANUNG NYU HEHEHE).
I am always asking if why GOD gave me this lady even if there’s a lot of girls that surround me even during high school, I don’t know why? Which I can prove and there’s a lot of witnesses that can prove that I am a heartthrob since highschool days (Kunti Lang J ). There are several lady admitted that they have crush on me, they like me and even seduce me. I remember there was this beautiful lady that wrote a letter to my mother asking her permission for me to be her escort in the prom night. But I am afraid because my mind set is to finish my study in college so I decline her offer. (Gwapo ko no? hehe)
Many of you are aware that this relationship might be end with nothing because there are many hindrances not to mention all but there are a lot of hindrances. But my feeling got deeper and deeper in unexpected way. Since it was long distance relationship she is in manila but I am in the province and still studying that time in UNC.
For 9 years 5 months and 27 days, our relationship is not that smooth as marble but as rocky as rough road because of the challenges, trials, struggles, hindrances, you name it, all are there. But because of those, we are grateful and thankful, after all that, we are still united and inlove.
Until Oct. 27, 2014 our savior came, the man that makes all this things possible, (Minard M. Amaro), he is my brother, my cousin, my friend adviser and my Godfather. Again in an unexpected day this happened, this LONG DISTANCE PAMAMHIKAN. I am very drunk that time because we came from a night swimming in PASACAO CAMARINES SUR. I am very happy that day that I can’t explain the happiness I have felt after 10years of our discreet relationship but we loved each other that’s why we are still strong despite of all the challenges in this relationship.
I can say I am the happiest man on April 26, 2014 not just it is our wedding day but what more special is, it is my great father BIRTHDAY. I personally choose the date because I want to celebrate our anniversary to come together with our great father.
The wait is over Ms. Jessa “Bebeb” Clavero for more than 1 decade. This is it pay day time of all the pressure and bad days in our relationship. I can’t wait to see you in every morning I woke up beside you and using my GREAT GRAND FATHER surname, I know even though he is not here I am very much sure that he is happy for us.
- Marvin 4.7.14
The couple would like to express thier special thanks to the person who makes this wedding possible. Because of him, the couple will walk down the aisle soon.
Kuya Minard, thank you for your support to our relationship. - Marvin & Jessa
From the Bride:
For people who didnt know, we are batch 1999 at Pili Central School in Elementary. We are not closed as in as if were not in the same Barangay. Were not also a typical neighboors or a childhood buddy. Only I remember a few conversation when we are in Elementary even on our childhood days. As far as I remember I was smart than him;) and he agree with it:). We've been parted in HighSchool years because we enrolled in different school. We see each other again on 2002, 4th quarter of highschool days. We both at the same age and time when we participated in youth organization.. One afternoon he borrowed our graduation invitation I cant remember why :) and ito pa he did not return it for so long so I always confront him... only I found out that It was lost and eventually he say it was burned-he burned it for no reason. Everytime we see each other we always have an argument because of it and after we become friends. Every weekend his playing billiards near our home and sometimes we talked regarding our secrets-- a playmode of a boys and girls? We become closer and closer On our college days, theres a time that he just pulled me out over my friends while were in naga plaza and say "uwi na tayo?!" Boyfriend lang and peg nya and to our barangay akala nila kami:) showbiz :)...
And suddenly around February 2002 he told me these "I will stop courting you for now...."( my "for now" pa! that means itutuloy nya after ;) LOL). I answered him like this "huh" "Seroiusly? "You are courting me? I dont know? LOL". This incident make us become closer to each other... only one night early summer weekend when he told me "I love you" i said " I love you too" "tayo na ba? "I answered him "Kailangan pa bang e memorized yan". I thought It was only a joke again So i ride on kasi nga lasing siya. only I realized that it is for real when he gave me a love letter so corny nga eh with endearment pa na "blank blank" and saying happy 1st monthsary dated May 07, 2004 ( babeb dont allow me to mentioned it.;)) clue? that endearment was the afternoon mexican drama wayback 2004;) take note everytime he visited me at our home I smell his j&j blue cologne hmmmm refreshing nuon :) ngayon hindi na---- syempre yung cologne nya not my baby. Nagka-migraine kasi ako kaya everytime he plan to buy his new perfume dapat I smell it muna, diba personalized :)
3 months later, I worked in Manila I thought our relationship already ends and tagal nya kasi mag-communicate. Hindi pala, he called me around October 2004 using his cousins phone :) We also experienced the long distance realtionship. For 2 years we call all day night long. Prepaid promo before has timeline12am-5am only. Even were eating, breaktime after his exam, nasa CR siya :)....Guess what?? we ended up both puyat. We are both excited every December or April comes because thats the time we will see each other again. We exchange our diaries so we are updated to our ups and downs :) Hindi kami "love at first sight". We developed our love to each other, we build our relationship. Everytime people asked us why we love each other, we says " Ewan" means "We just love each other it doesnt need a reason why" Our love is no specific reason. not particular if why.
Like many other relationships we experience a lot of difficulties but we make sure to have each other heart. We planned it for a lifetime that no matter what happened or whatever it takes we will be holding each other half that were ready to face the moon and the sun, the land and the sea, the dawn and the sunset anu pa ba? :) :) :)
As much as I wanted to share our relationship in full story but I think this page may jammed and you might take a year to read it;)) We are happy to share our agreement copy on this page to show it tha we did it :) Basta I feel so so excited to our next level of our relationship. Sabi nya nga " its not going to be easy but I'm telling you its going to be worth it" Corrected by :) I just so loved our story, its not easy but its worth to wait ;) Me and my Maiya are so happy ^_____^ so much.
My love will never fail you beb ;)
Loves Maiya
